My wife was never a girl - Transgender notes

Renate Stoute wrote a novel about her transition from male to female in the late nineties. Her partner Janis Wagemans wrote about the beautiful but often frustrating time to completion as well.
In search for her (bisexual) identity she mainly embraces her lesbian coming out, during the phase in which Renate is still locked inside her male body.

This book binds the two viewpoints together.